I'm sorry if this offends those amongst you who hold "Guess How Much I love You?" as a sacred text, and, call me a stiff upper-lipped Brit, but I find it all a bit precious &...well, icky. Not the sentiments themselves, but it's just a bit OTT. However, my children loved the book. And love making up their own versions, which I admit is very sweet. And I guess that's the idea.
ANYWAY that aside, I'm glad that my 5 1/2 yr old 'prospective son-in-law' has a good sense of humour, a key ingredient in a strong relationship.
He said to my daughter yesterday,
“Guess how much I love you?
& then he said,
"THIS much” and held his thumb & forefinger together with a barely space between.
On getting the laugh he had hoped for from my ‘secure in his affections’ daughter, who obviously knew it MUST be a joke, said,
“Not really. This much” & flung his arms wide.
They have evidently both been reporting back to respective parents how much the other loves them. It’s all very matter of fact & I am glad they get on so well & she has a boy as a best friend to take the edge off the incipient girliness that's always threatening to take over her penchant for tree climbing & Star Wars games. I like the fact she's a mixture. I think it's healthy. As for the kissing though??......
Yesterday when I picked them up from school my daughter announced, unprompted, about her school day.
“I kissed T today mummy, during rest time.”
Then added; “Jon & Jamie did too.” So clearly T is not that discriminating........
"Where did you kiss him?"
"In the classroom."
"No I mean where?"
"Oh, on his head, & so did Jon but Jamie kissed him on his tummy."
"Where the teacher was in all this florid display of affection I have no idea."
My son’s response was “Wow, I WISH I’d been in kindergarten here, they always have such fun!”
I have to say though I still stand by my impression of T as a gallant, young man though, as mentioned in my last post.
The above conversation was whilst I was walking 5 children through the park to the tennis courts there for a lesson. When we arrived, my daughter needed to change her t shirt. She asked me where she was going to get changed. I said, "Just change it here, it doesn’t matter", whereupon she said
“T don’t look!”
T, ever the chivalrous young gentleman said, in amanner which Bertie Wooster would have been proud of,
“I’m blind, I can see nothing” whilst rather histrionically shielding his eyes with his hand. So that's another tick in the right box. (the chilvalry , not the Bertie Wooster impression) Not that I was expecting to be ticking any boxes quite this soon........
And she obviously believes she’s an authority on kissing now. When I went to tuck her in last night she advised me,
“Mummy whatever you do, DON’T kiss Daddy tonight, he is feeling ill & is spreading germs.”
My son, however, is far too busy making money to be genuinely jealous of the fun & frolics of a day in kindergarten.
He has been saving hard to pay me back £7.99 for a game he bought on ebay. It is arriving tomorrow with friends who are visiting, from England.
He has been feverishly polishing my husband’s shoes, cleaning the car, running errands, anything to supplement his pocket money, & consequently 'unjobbing' Albanians trying to make an honest living cleaning cars (Lavazh) & shining shoes.
However, I discovered from one of his friends yesterday that he sold some of his packed lunch in order to make the last 40 lek he needed (25p) He sold one of my chocolate brownies, his favourite. (Have to say I’m a bit peeved he sold it so cheaply, they’re worth a lot more than that I reckon) AND his packet of crisps, which was indeed a sacrifice as he only gets them once a week. (Yes I know stereotypical middle-class angst ridden mother) Wasn't sure whether to applaud or scold him for this. So I ignored it.
So what with entrepreneurism & infant affections, my children are certainly keeping me on my toes. It gives an added level of expectation to the mundane question,
"What did you do at school today?"